Why gratis is the biggest obstacle to progress

                 Everybody likes to get things for gratis, meaning to obtain what he/she wants but for free..! It is something completely natural but when we adopt gratis based thinking, we feed a kind of obsessing psychological structure that changes to a dependency syndrome which becomes a real hindrance to progress..!
Why gratis is the biggest obstacle to progress
Why gratis is the biggest obstacle to progress

Why do we become gratis dependent most of the time

            In fact, to get things per gratis, as a malicious habit, can be classified as an acquired behavior that begins from the earlier birth time..! When a three-month baby cries and gets frequent immediate attention he/she puts the first step in this shameful pathway..! This negative behavior grows up accordingly as far as the parents can't or don't know how and when to say no..! They feel confused between the fear of bad consequences if they don't meet all their children freely needs and the same thing if they do!

        Day by day, gratis attitude changes to a bad habit but the strange paradox's that the concerned person, who deals with this bad attitude as being his/her best behavior, can't recognize his/her unacceptable behavior and defends it as if free of charge is a legal right..! This person thinks to be in the right way and the other, one who can't meet his/her needs, is the ugly..! That's why persons, who were used to get many services gratis, often acquire other negative habits like stealing, embezzlement, fraud.., each time they fail getting all things as free as possible..! Persons, like those, are negative citizens who can't contribute to the world economic progress, moreover, they cause noticeable underdevelopment all around the world!

Why do we fail, can't stand up and can't maintain success

             Most of the people living on the gratis principle can't make a positive change in their lives and if they do they can't maintain it for a long time! We can't build a kingdom of success paying nothing; it is not so easy or free as in speech..! Everything has a price to pay for and if you do so you will get good results! For example, when a father finances a project for his son who used to live on dependency, there is a high probability that this son will fail sooner or later because he didn't do any effort collecting the money..!

            Some parents commit a big mistake when they think so and the worst thing they usually present for a gratis-dependent person (son/daughter) is that they help him/her getting married for the sake of changing their lives!

How to adopt 'if you want it you have to work for it' conviction to improve your living 

           Bear in mind there's nothing called gratis use, nothing's free forever; even when breathing, if you don't give CO2 you can't get O2! Try to keep away from the mentality of the poor because it is a destructive inherited culture preventing people from getting success! Let, even, gratis copy down, try to pay for everything you need and you will see real tangible positive results! When you pay for something you feel powerfreedomvaluerelevance..! You can touch the difference between free and paid moral concept when you deal with internet sites and tools..! If you want to feel success, to live successfully and to maintain success, pay for anything you need on the internet, whatever the price is..!

         Life, in general, is founded on the principle of exchange and integration values and no one can take advantage of gratis payment for a lifetime..! Bear in mind that when you get things for free, most of the time, you have stolen somebody's efforts..! Am I right? I welcome your opinions, suggestions, and advice!

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